It’s becoming a hot trend. Wedding love poems, exchanged between the spouses, serves to remind you of all the wonderful qualities of the person you’ve chosen to marry. A wedding love poem can be the most romantic gift you’ll ever exchange. When you marry, that day lives on, in both memories and photo albums.
However, the first time you have a serious disagreement, you may wonder what ever possessed you to marry him, or her. This is when you consult your own wedding love poem for the answer. One reading will refresh your spirit and fill your heart with love as fresh as the day you exchanged vows. A kiss and a hug and you and your sweetie are again the young lovers. So what do you do if you’re not a poet?
There are websites which offer writing services from their staff of poets. So you needn’t be schooled in poetry to give this most romantic gift to your beloved. Wedding love poem services provide guidance on a style that suits yours. You may be asked to fill out a questionnaire to ‘fill in the blanks’ on your particular relationship so that the poet has a context within which to work. You are most often given a revision option, whereby you can review the wedding love poem and send in notes to make the final copy just perfect.
If you’re lucky enough to have a friend who is a poet, see if you can hire them for this lovely endeavor. Of course, if you have talent in poetry, or simply just a desire, go for it!
No matter how you choose to write your ultimate wedding love poem, begin by interviewing yourself. Strange as it might sound, this technique can serve to focus you, in an in-depth way, on just why you love your beloved so much. The interview process brings to light, and pen, many aspects you may never have realized. Try this experiment. Ask a married friend, “Why do you love your spouse? Why did you marry him or her?” Many a married person, caught unaware, may not be able to tell you, in so many words. While they deeply love their spouse, this is a tough sentiment to express off the cuff. This is what the poet eloquently puts to paper.
Here are some sample interview questions to help you write a real tear-jerker that will span the decades and keep your love as fresh as your wedding day flowers.
- What was it about your beloved that initially swept you off your feet?
- What’s the best quality of your love’s character?
- What made you decide you could not live without him or her?
- Why are you perfect for each other?
- Name some of your love’s faults and why you love them anyway?
- How about your vows? Are you wholeheartedly prepared to fulfill the ‘for better or worse, in sickness and in health’, no matter what?
- Why do you want to spend the rest of your life with this person?
- What are your mutual hopes and dreams?
At first glance, you may think this is an easy quiz. Not so. Put considerable thought into each question. Be truthful and thorough. Elaborate. Add any new questions that come to mind. This becomes your eloquent wedding love poem that lasts through the years to come.